Thursday, September 4, 2014

The *real* first day of school

Dear Twyns,

Today was your first day of Kindergarten! Mommy and Daddy had a lot of drama getting you ready! We were so excited, I think we made it worse.

Little guy, you had a hard time at the 'bus practice day' a week ago and would not get on the bus, so we were worried about this morning.

We went to two more visits to the school this week and both of you started to get excited about Kindergarten instead of nervous.

We got your teacher assignments last night and were very happy you have two great teachers and you'll get a chance to make a lot of new school friends since we learned you will not be with your besties :(.

We made you a big breakfast with your favorites: waffles, strawberries, bacon, and eggs (well, those last ones were for mommy's sake.) We were going for Disney Cruise Breakfast Buffet. Did we nail it?

Dude, you got syrup on your blue shirt so Daddy got upset because you had to wear your green shirt, and for some reason he did not want to immortalize the green shirt in your 'first day' photos forever. But Daddy is cray.

We were packing up your two healthy snacks for the day and I put them in your outside pocket of your backpacks. Daddy was worried the grapes would get smushed so he put them in a tupperware at the last minute. What was that bit about Daddy being cray? Maybe cray-cray.

We took photos outside and walked to the bus stop.

Little sweetheart, you got a little worried when another mommy started complaining about the bus. But Daddy helped talk you through your anxiety. And mommy gave that other mommy the evil eye.

Dude, you were very excited and even ran to meet your neighborhood bestie so he could ride the bus with you.

Then the bus finally came and, in the excitement, little guy, you tripped and fell and skinned your shin. So you started crying and wouldn't get on the bus. So mommy pried your hands from around her neck and passed you off to Daddy, who tried to get you on the bus but it just wasn't happening. You were crying too much even though two minutes before you were very happy and playing with your friends.

So we walked home and Daddy was upset he missed the little girl getting on the bus. He drove you to school.

Daddy took a photo of sweet girl coming *off* the bus at school and that made him happy. Sweetheart, you were wondering what he was doing there!! Dude, you saw your bestie and played on the playground with him a little bit before everyone got to their teachers' rooms in their proper place (along with your backpacks, which Daddy had to move at the last minute.) And that was the beginning of the first day of school today!

I hope you BOTH come home on the bus this afternoon and ride the bus in the morning tomorrow! We'll call it a dress rehearsal today. Mommy always says: "awful rehearsal, great performance." We love you so much and are so proud of you!

We love you,
Mommy & Daddy

So, of course the photos of Mommy & you are in Daddy's phone, 
so I'll put them on the blog sometime in the next decade. 


now back to our regularly scheduled sewing & fitness routines...

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Dear High School Reunion

I'm not coming.

I'm sorry that September, while always being a bit hectic, this year will be even more cray-cray in this house. You see, I have twyns, and they are starting kindergarten. And while they don't see the big deal in this, I KNOW that there will be meltdowns on a daily basis, extra naps required, many a lunchtime/snacktime and wardrobe malfunction crises averted.

And the twyns might be affected as well.

But, to be honest, I was having trepidation about attending the upcoming 20th reunion even when it was tentatively planned for August, which is a relatively peaceful month in our little family unit.

You see, I have nothing going on right now, of note. Yes, yes, I know I write about a lot of stuff going on, but that is just so I can remember the mundane daily state in which I currently reside. I will most certainly remember the milestones - potty training, preschool graduation, that little musical I did, stitches, wedding dates, vacations...but it's nice to look back and see what other mischief we got into along the way.

Oh I know I know motherhood is a tough job, and most people see the sacrifice SAHM's make as a noble endeavor, and it is, after all, rather temporary in the grand scheme of my life and career(s.)

Buuuuuut, to be honest again, I don't have much to show for even before I s-a-homed and started to raise these munchkins. Some things of note. Some goals achieved. But over-arching-career-wise? I still kinda feel like that remains to be seen.

My resume is all over the place, and the next thing I land is going to either solidify a thread running through it, or completely change directions again on everybody and I'll spend a lifetime explaining it before I even get another job interview.

Besides that point, I don't even really think I know what I want to *be* when I grow up! I'm not an eternal child either, I'm just focused on the long game of life. 40 does not seem like an establishment-type age. And I'm not even 40 quite yet!!

And it's not like you have to enter the venue of your high school reunion defining your life and world in a flashy five minutes or less, but you kinda have to define your life and world in a flashy five minutes or less.

And it's not like you have to compete with 300 doctors, lawyers, app creators, documentary filmmakers, charity board directors and life savers, but OH, you do. You don't know my high school. I think one of my high school friends once told me he was helping to design a living computer chip? With like, genetic material? Or am I making that up? That sh** is not beyond the reach of the majority of my fellow graduates, is what I'm saying. It's completely in the realm of possibility.

And like, they aren't just surgeons, but they also served in Iraq?! And learned Arabic while they were there. Just because it seemed to come easily to them. And so then they joined the Intelligence side of things.

Ok, ok, I'm mixing peoples' accomplishments now. But did you know, that's how you feel upon walking out of a high school reunion!?! You wonder who said what, and just remember feeling dumb-founded.

Found. DUMB.

But I'm not insecure. I love my life. I have a lot of happiness, and it shows. And I don't usually compare peoples' outsides with my insides, despite the lure of facebook's braggery and bad habits of self aggrandization.

What I'm most scared of, to be perfectly honest even more than before, is that I don't actually remember how I relate to everyone at school. How close were we? Was I a good friend? Did you see how much I floated around? Did that make you not trust me? Did you know I was always a one-woman or one-man type of friend/girlfriend? I have a lot of photos of my best friend and me, or my boyfriend and me, but rarely the group of friends I called my own. I loved so many groups. And I don't remember where I fit in best. I don't remember who's going to come up to me and say, "Remember the time when..." and if I'm going to remember that time or not. Or if it was as important to me as it was to them. And what if no one comes up to me and starts a story that way. My own little world was truly my own. little. world. What if I did all that I did in complete isolation and never really noticed that I did?

Plus, my husband can't come in September. I can't walk in without him on my arm. I've known him since I was 19 and I don't really think I started to understand who I was without him holding the mirror for me. He is like, my interpreter at parties. He both translates what people are really saying to me, and what I'm really saying to other people. Honestly, everyspazz should really have one of those.

But I do want to go. At the end of the day, I know I will have fun, and share stories, and be dumb-founded in a good way, and feel proud in a weird way of who I am today.

Because I'm pretty sure, it's the same who I was then.

And I don't remember high school being anything other than an extremely special place where we all got together and built our brains, hearts and bodies with the positive support and spirits all around us.

Thanks, Stanton.

I miss you.

I'll catch you at the 25th ;)

Dress fever!

Well as you know I was quite funky last month but now there is a flurry of activity as we prepare for the start of school, two last little summer visits, and I get ready for our semi annual Moms of Multiples Exchange Sale. I've got a lot to sell this time around-big stuff and clothes now that my daughter, at the ripe old age of 5 1/2, can safely admit she won't wear the 2Ts/3Ts anymore.

The kids were helping me wash up the outdoor toys this past week
Mommy camp round three is in full effect and thus my latest excuse for not blogging more.

Taking advantage of some last chance pool days!!
I also happened to have a job interview, but that's another story for another day.

Also the fact that it is my TENTH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY! WOO HOO! But again, perhaps I'll post more about it later.

My main purpose today is to share my new love of making my daughter dresses. I am finally learning to read! Patterns that is! And I am starting to recall that, although I taught myself quilting, I did start with some magazine quilt patterns here and there to teach me new techniques that I could then incorporate into my own designs. So, true to fashion (hyuk hyuk), I can never quite follow the patterns down to the tiniest detail, but rather, always end with my own little flair. I think I should get started on the book Beginning Dressmaking for Quilters because everything I know from sewing, is geared towards quilts, and let's start with the seam allowances....WHYYYYY is it 5/8" for clothes and 1/4" for quilts?? 'Splain, plz.

[Pictured from left is parts of See & Sew B5443, The Penny Dress, and on the right Simplicity S0613]

So, get ready, blogsophere! I might be participating in a few kids' clothing sewing shares/linkup parties soon...I've got the serger up and running again! Nothing's gonna stop me...

That is, unless I sign up for another race or something stupid like that...

Or finish one of the five quilts I have started over the last year...

But honestly, I'm really excited to continue more meaningful projects, and, as my mantra up in my new sewing area states, to make:
This must be why I have a new "Frozen" section in my cubby-holes. The little girl wants an Elsa costume, alas...even though everybody and their grandmother made one last year...I must learn...

So I've added categories to my idea board: Dresses - House Decor - Quilts. 

So there. It's in writing. So it will get done. Someday. 

In the meantime I will go ahead and spoil my daughter rotten...

Oh, ok, the boy too...

Am feeling like redeeming myself on boy clothes again after my last debacle...
And myself (I learned it from my mom)...
#trouble #itsgenetic #fabriholics
And my sewing space might as well get a little bling, too...
#superheroesforgirls #yardsalesmakemehappy
What's new with you? Any new endeavor firing you up??

Friday, August 15, 2014

CamelBeach Family Fun #funforFriday

Yesterday Daddy took the day off work and we headed into the Poconos mountains (hmmmm, sounds familiar? Seems like he is exceptionally motivated to take days off work to head into mountains...) to hit CamelBeach WaterPark

We did some online research and figured this would be the best local day-trip-water-park for us to try because it was a nice mix of slides for their age and size. The twyns are 5 1/2 now, and the boy juuuuust clears the 42" mark, but the girl does not yet. They are both safely over the 36" mark, and obviously, they are nowhere near the 48" mark for 3 of the faster attractions. 
(Even though the boy continued to measure himself at
each and every stand to see if they had grown between slides.)
This meant they were eligible for at least 6 of the 13 slide-like attractions, and there were also 2 'tower'-like structures/play areas with water hazards, bridges, and slides within: Pharoah's Phortress (probably best for 5 and up), and Camel Cove (probably best for 5 and under.) Believe me, this was plenty for us to do. The kids could have probably ridden the "Titan", the one where all four of us were able to ride together, all day. 

We also loved the skyride! And since we were able to rent a locker (we fit our backpack in a small one for $8 for the day), we didn't have our phones/cameras on us all day long, so the rest of our photos are of the second skyride, after we decided to change into our dry clothes and hit it one last time. 

#skifamily #eveninthesummer
This afforded us a birds' eye view of the new CamelBack Lodge they are building, with an indoor water park. Hubby said he could definitely see us staying there for a ski trip in the future. 

We had a great time. We arrived just after opening at 10:20 am, and on a weekday, it was relatively un-crowded. The longest we waited for a slide was 10 minutes. I'm sure the faster slides for older kids were a little longer wait-times, but overall I would definitely recommend going on a weekday if you can swing it. We left at around 5 pm and ate dinner in Allentown on the way home. 

We also got the "family fun pack" of tickets, 4 for $99, which was the best value. If you decide to go during the 'twilight time' (after 2 pm for buying tix online, or 3 pm at door), you could still hit the majority of the attractions for half the price as well. I would recommend this if your kids are old enough to ride all the attractions by themselves and are going to be running all around the park to accomplish this. 

A bit of advice: 
  • you'll want to wear water shoes if you have sensitive feet. You can put your flip-flops in a cubby hole at the entrance of each slide, but then you still have to walk up to the top of the slide on concrete. I didn't mind; my hubby was a little uncomfortable.
  • you are going to be walking a lot, and up the ramps of each slide (sometimes carrying a tube), so be prepared for sore thighs at the end of the day.
  • It was overcast on our day, and so the water felt a bit cold, and the wind was really not helping. We ended up bringing the kids' towels to put in the cubby of each slide, so that they had them right away when we exited. 
  • stake out your lounge chairs right away (there are many areas, we chose Camel Cove in the center of the park) and park your towels/water bottles there. 
  • we didn't reserve our picnic table within 48 hours, but there were still some available at the door. Because we weren't sure we would get one, we didn't bring food. It probably would have been worth it. $40 for lunch purchased on site minus $15 picnic table rental = $25 of outside food purchases/opportunity cost that would probably have done the trick. 
Clouds did not deter us from having a great time. Just bring your hoodies!
Hope you are enjoying the last few weeks of summer! 

I know my friends in the SouthEast are already back to school, and I can't even imagine it yet! Gonna go cram in as much summer as possible now..buh-bye!!

Monday, August 11, 2014

Daddy's list for the Baby Registry #newmommyweek

So I had originally asked my husband for help with ideas on my baby registry post, and he started saying some pretty funny things, so then I asked him to help me finish up #newmommyweek with a Daddy post, and now you can see how things spiraled out of control and became #newmommyweekandahalf because, first lesson on new mommy-ness: Daddies slow you up. And you have to be a nag sometimes, but it's not because he doesn't want to be involved, he is just thinking about other things less 'in-the-moment' and you gotta snap him back to the crying baby in the other room.

[Now I want to be PC and say that partners slow you up (because everybody has a partner, even single mommies need a partner in this parenthood world), but I'm pretty sure the partner with the most slowing-down potential is the Daddy. Which has its merits as you run around like a chicken without a head and he puts your head back on, but I digress, because I don't know anyone like that #spazz....]

So here I am, writing a #funforFriday post on a Monday, in #newmommyweek half-a-week-later, with only three things on it for Daddies:

1. Rechargeable batteries
All the swings, toys, baby monitors, breast pumps, etc still, for the most part, use batteries. My husband, over the years, has built a cache that could carry us 20 years into the apocalypse. After the first seven runs to the store for some different sized battery, he started to catch on. He wished he had scanned one of those rechargeable sets at the baby store along side the cute crib sets and onesies.

2. Amazon prime
This includes, which you will often need within 48 hours, streaming of Dora & Diego and The NeverEnding Story, subscribe & save on staples like: wipes, and just about everything else under the sun. Yes, we all know Amazon has taken over the world of online shopping, but did you know you could get all that sh** at your house in under 2 days? Go ahead and get the prime membership. Or, better yet, ask for it on your registry. You'll be hooked. [Prime includes the streaming, btw.]

Hubby perfected the cross-leg hands-free hold
3. Netflix
You will find, if you haven't already, Netflix has a kids section. And it will play one episode after the other if you let it (to a point.) My children call it the "red channel" and while it is a bit dangerous to have every kind of entertainment we want at our fingertips, at any time, it is crucial that we do not watch commercials. Watching those are just like, creating a shopping list from your couch. My son, in particular, wants IT ALL. Rainbows, unicorns, fluffy pillows, as well as transformers, guns, and toys from shows he's never even heard about... he wants. He's quite impressionable. Gotta find him a nice girl to marry that won't take advantage of his wide-eyed view of the world.

Speaking of rainbows & unicorns, I have been making some dresses lately and having a lot of fun! Who knew quilts took so long and dresses take so short? If you follow TwynMawrMom on facebook or twitter, you will have seen the pics. Blog post to come soon...

What he didn't say, and what we've really enjoyed is: 
4. A real camera
One of our friends told us to get a DSLR camera before they were born, and I ended up getting my husband one for his birthday, which took place a few weeks after they were born but before our daughter got home from the NICU. It really did/does take a softer photo that makes you feel like a pro! Those newborn pics at home with the DSLR camera are priceless and oh so warm.

Anywho, that's the new Daddy part of the equation. You may have noticed your partner not getting quite as excited and emotional about all of this (cliche, but true). Wait til birth-day. It'll take him about 5 minutes to get on board with WHATEVER baby needs :)

Happy Monday, new mommies! 
What else do you want to hear about? 

And the rest of the mommies: what were your biggest questions/fears during your first pregnancy?

I had an irrational fear of not getting enough pictures, I guess, 
because we took 1000 in the first 30 days. 
Like, how many pics of my daughter with a tube coming out of her nose
 am I going to really want to save for posterity? Jeez.

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